If She Has These 5 Traits, Don’t Let Her Go

Never take a good woman for granted.

James Michael Sama
DataDrivenInvestor
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5 min readAug 24, 2021

We can run through countless lists of qualities that men or women want in a potential long-term partner (oh…and we have), but the fact of the matter is that everyone is looking for something different.

As my grandmother used to say — “There’s an ass for every seat.”

That being said, I’m going to posit 5 traits in this article that I think are hard to argue with as what men are really looking for, and should fully appreciate in a partner.

1: She is warmhearted.

I was having a hard time choosing the word to use for this point. Nurturing? Caring? Compassionate? Warm? Kind?

But warmhearted encompasses the idea of someone who is all of the above.

While I believe that [good] men are natural-born protectors and should do everything in their power to make the woman in their life feel safe, I also know that men have their own desires to feel cared for or looked after.

Society has painted a false picture that men are emotionless or cold, but the truth is that we feel our own frustrations, pain, fears, and insecurities.

A warmhearted person doesn’t brush off these feelings when he expresses them — she…

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Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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Never take a good woman for granted, someday, someone will come along and appreciate what you didn’t.

Amen. I have seen this several times in my life.
It also works the other way sometimes, after extreme unappreciation my fiance became available when I met her. I can't say I'm glad for the former man's loss, but I am enjoying appreciating her as she should be.

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I am that woman and have recently stopped seeing a man who didn't appreciate these qualities, at least not in me. Whilst it was very disheartening, I'm happy that I stopped hustling for my worth and let go.

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Yassss! Playfulness is important! I watch Spongebob with no shame.

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